What can I say?? Justin is amazing. He always has been, but the last 48 hours have opened my eyes again to what a selfless, loving, kindhearted person my husband is. As we were resting today I told him it felt like yesterday we were on our honeymoon. Now we are on an entirely new journey, but it is much more incredible.
Justin was the best support anyone could have throughout a pregnancy. For those who don't know, Justin and I lost a baby last May. It was very tough on Justin because he so desired to have a baby. However, his strength never wavered and he was so brave for me. I knew he was aching inside, but he never broke down in front of me. He just focused his attention on healing me and getting me through the tough event. This pregnancy he went to every appointment, answered my silly questions, reassured me when I was nervous, took me to get sno cones often, ate Mexican food (not his favorite) more than he would have liked, painted the nursery while enduring the stomach flu, made multiple trips to Pottery Barn kids and Babies R Us, and comforted me when I needed it. The pregnancy was scary at first, but Justin once again was the brave one. Throughout the pregnancy I noticed Justin's anticipation and joy about the upcoming event growing. I even caught him looking online at Daddy boot camp classes and checking our baby registry.
Justin unfortunately suffers from debilitating migraines. Going into our induction we were already sleep deprived due to anticipation, and the lack of sleep resulted in a migraine. However, he never let me know. He pushed through the pain knowing that his migraine would have added to my anxiety. During labor he encouraged me and reassured me that I was doing an awesome job. When Caroline was having trouble during labor, I could tell he was worried but he just kept calming me. He always put my feelings before his. I would not have gotten through labor without him. Finally, when he saw Caroline his eyes lit up. I knew he was a new man...a father. The love for his new baby was evident.
Once she was born and we got a moment alone, Justin gave me the most beautiful watch. I cannot wait to show it off to all of my family and friends. Every time I look at it I will remember the special moment.
After delivery I was in a lot of pain and I could not move easily. It was hard for me to care for our baby. Justin immediately took charge. He learned to swaddle and diaper our baby. For the first night he was up at every noise and took care of Caroline. We have the most content burrito baby when he swaddles her. He is a natural at this daddy business.
I am writing all of this as Justin sleeps. Trust me...he deserves a break. He has been a busy father these past 48 hours. He is always willing to give me time off, so I hope I can do the same for him.
Some might say...why are you sharing all of this information? Well I just want the world to know what an incredible person Justin is.
Justin, I love you more than you will ever know.
9 comments:
Sounds like he is amazing! Your baby girl is just beautiful. Congratulations!
WOW! That takes me back to the beginning of our journey and I know just how you feel! Justin is one in a million and thank God Zach is too! Your marriage takes on such a new wonderful dynamic and there is no turning back, your partnership strengthens and grows as you cry in the lows and celebrate the highs. Welcome to the parent club- it's a tough initiation but worth every moment! I love yall!!!!
That was so awesome! I totally teared up reading it. I know exactly how you feel. It is virtually impossible to survive with a baby without the support of a loving husband. Yal are great parents already!!!
Parenthood brings out things in all of us we didn't know we had. You're a lucky lady to have a man like Justin. Kyle was the same way when Karlie was born and continues to be that way today. There's just something about daddy's and their daughters! Congratulations on the healthy completion of one journey and the wonderful beginning of another! We look forward to meeting Caroline!
Allison, this brings tears to my eyes. You married such a wonderful man! I am so excited for ya'll. She is very cute!
Ahhh...that made me cry! Sounds like a great guy! You & Caroline are blessed. I remember those days. This is Hillary Kucera Hiler by the way. I saw your blog on Summer's so I just had to take a look at your precious little one!
We know Justin is an amazing man. You could not have described him any better. We are so blessed to have him in our family. We are very proud of both of you. We are extremely thankful for our precious, healthy granddaughter. Caroline is so fortunate to have both of you as parents. We love you all very much. Congratulations!
Mom and Dad
OK, tear! That was so sweet. It is such a special time and there is definitely something to be said about a man becoming a father for the first time. It definitely changes them, especially with girls!
Caroline is so beautiful..... Justin Allison y'all are going to be great parents I know it..... Justin your welcome to put pictuers of the family on my blog website you want to go for it I don't mind at all :)
Love Aunt,
Nicole
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